The mischievious truth

A: Do you emotionally get hurt when i am unhappy or you feel bad abt something when i deny you what you ask for
Do you share a emotional bond with me... wic mks u unhappy if I feel bd abt something. .

B: One day sooner or later when we part ways,  both will have their own journey to undertake. What will remain when we look back is what we built of the journey we had when road was same...i enjoy the journey as much as i can.. For i shall never think that there was ever a trip which didnt add value to the journey..

A; This dosen ans my question

B: Cos the question is wrong

A; N I don need ur diplomacy

B: But thats me then..u dont need me then

B: I have chosen to live life in a certain way n i live by that...


Physical, emotional n intellectual being the diff dimensions of life, people in life always serve certain dimension n add to your life experiences... Like i may be adding to your intellectual dimension of life..
We always connect to single or multiple dimensions with another soul...i always see what i can get...like other may see what they can..n when they both understand and accept each other's role,  the relation builds.


An imbalance or mismatch or fake portrayal only ends in accidents that leave bad taste in life. 

A lover's query - Will you forget me ?

When we are in love, we know only two things. Love and the person who we love. Everything else just fades away into a hazy background where realities of life live. No matter what you do, love will always be the only reality that stays with you.

Its a true blessing if you find love, then both of you experience love and finally live your whole life sharing the love day in day out. 

For most of the mortals, the third condition is usually where they falter - chance to share lives till death do us apart ! 

So, what happens when the love anecdote doesn't complete in a happily ever after. We usually are left with either a feeling of honest love with some pain and lots of memories OR we are left with a feeling of betrayal with lots of pain and "being used" memories. 

Cos in the end when we have to take separate roads, the question comes to "Will you forget me and was OUR love real?"

The answer in one of the my personal experience is "I can never forget you and love was a real as the air I need to breathe. You were the one flowing in me like a river of eternal beauty, bliss and charm."


The love was so real that it still keeps me awake.....still the thoughts of what he or she might be doing lingers every day every hour every minute. Finding out if their life still has you, in a little corner, somewhere gives you a larger sense of achievement and satisfaction. But then to save them the pain and agony you choose to display what you feel and always show a step taken further away, happiness in alternate way of life. 

Thou shall never doubt OUR love and WE shall never lose OUR love !

Leaving it here....my eyes getting moist.....the article looks and sounds incomplete....but then not everything has an ending or an perfect ending!

A rendezvous with dreams aboard L-express !

A magical journey of girl with dreams!

Seldom it happens that you meet people and they remind you of what you should be doing in life, what have you forgotten or put in sleep mode. A similar instance happened a few days back and I will try to roll back my memory to that moment. On board Rajdhani Express from Delhi to Mumbai, I had a side lower birth in coach A2, SEAT NO. 23…..I settled down on my seat and was trying to read a book which I thought I can easily finish. With still a few minutes to departure, the second passenger for the upper side berth (seat no. 24) arrived. Two ladies with some luggage, one left after making sure the first one is all good for her journey. I didn’t try to strike a eye contact with the girl as in India the moment you do that the other side gets cautious to the core…tried to keep it as harmless as it can…the lady was on phone initially explaining to some other intelligent soul the nitty-gritty of the RIGHT TO INFORMATION (RTI) queries. Oh boy that was some insight…proud of RTI Act,.

However, the journey had other things planned. With the train chugging along, we got into conversation and things became more comfortable. But then this was a start to some exciting details. The conversation went on and on….about things, about people, about social environment, about dreams…yes about dreams….the passion to achieve the dreams one always sees. She got into an accidental job while she was pursuing her job, which incidentally happens to 99% of us…we dream of something and then start on a path which doesn’t lead to achieving dreams but surviving in this world, may be collecting a few luxuries on the way.  We put the dreams in sleep mode and start fighting with this world and get into race for more money, more comfort, more kids (true Indian will)….

Here I am sitting in front of a person who belongs to balance 1%. A wheatish complexion girl with eyes of an angel and tongue unstoppable which is capable of miles of conversation in one breath. The enthusiasm in her voice, the fire in her eyes for her dreams was so evident that I felt as if someone is showing a mirror to me and saying see how dreams are achieved. Working passionately, with commitment and never to lose sight of the ultimate goal.  The world will always be full of distractions including relationships (theory of constraints) but those who keep going and pushing towards the end goal will reach there. The sacrifices shall be made, the risk shall be taken. We kept the conversation going from around 5 in the evening till 10-1030 in the night which might tell you that everything possible about the life was discussed and still I wanted more not because I was drowned into her starry eyes but how lit up her eyes were about her goals in life. Transfer some of your energy, passion and commitment in me to awaken the inner sleeping dream of mine…..as a little rub, a little touch, a spark, may lead to a fire inside me.  

Life will always put doubt in our mind when we wish to achieve our dreams and show us hundreds of reasons why we shouldn’t pursue, however the taste of final accomplishment shall be reason enough to go for your dreams. Its worth a shot or two or more to achieve your goals. The normal life can be on-boarded on any station in life, it won’t matter.

Will never forget the end of that journey, I am looking from outside the dark window and know you can’t see me…but left with a smile for a journey you stirred in my mind

Girl you are strong and might need to start alone
For not too many would walk along,
Win it with your focus and win it with your passion
For it may be worth every pain that’s on offer
I will be happy to see you there when you have won the war
A few battles, a few people may be lost but that’s part of God’s plan
When you tell me one day that you have achieved,  I will live on once more for my dreams
Even if you won’t succeed God forbid..hold you head high because not many often try….in this world it’s a far cry

 Couldn't finish he book i started with but still ended the journey so enriched ! life chugs along !

Update: She achieved her dream....arrived at ultimate destination. 

Constrained by constaints....life around us!

Life is nothing but a web that people create around us....we are always constrained by the people who will keep reminding us that we are constrained and chained by everything we know as emotions, as relationships. We are liable for all and we need to respect / tolerate everything and everyone.

The concept of free will I feel is limited to only strays these days.....

The situation is much worse for the grown ups as they are taught to take their own decisions and still everyone will keep telling them if he/she can or can't....the pros and cons of everything....grown ups always live a life of dilemma....oh what if...!!!!

How I wish we were free and my body is as free as the spirit inside me...the spirit can do and imagine whatever it wants...it lives the life body wishes for...

The physical body only gets to experience patches of life....once in a while...when people are not telling you what is right or wrong or may be when we stop telling ourselves what's right or wrong....everything becomes what it is...neither good nor bad...

When present is free of past or future....that's when we will be free really.... till then we will all be constrained by constraints....





 

Love happens only once - Not so sure??

As human being we all are prone this phenomenon called Love. Its available in diff flavors....mother-son, father-son, sibling-sibling, boyfriend-girlfriend, husband-wife combo, friend-friend combo, etc etc etc......each of the flavors have their own charm and sweetness to it. But what I am going to dwell more here is the heart-heart love.....difficult explanation to what it actually means...ask me if I have any structure to what I am writing, I will say no..have no clue at all...but then all these thoughts and real life stories keep bubbling in my head.

Someone asked me little while back if Love happens only once in lifetime. Can we find true love and if I get true love....is it possible that I can fall in true love again after a certain time, with a certain person, willingly or by heart's command? I told the person what I believe in. As human beings, God has given us a gift to keep falling in love time and again. We fall in love with personalities, faces, actions, reactions of someone. By nature, it is impossible to shut the doors because heart has none, its like a canvas on which diff colors can be painted using diff brushes, diff strokes, diff thoughts. Am I undermining the value of commitment in any relationship and justify broken commitments? No as per what I feel

I remember when a friend of mine first fell in love, it was with a girl in yellow dress, he searched for the girl for days, sat in her class, kept looking for her and when he found her, that was the best feeling he ever got. For three years, he kept looking at that girl and couldn't help but be in love with her even though he knew the feeling wasn't mutual. True love...yes it was, for him.

Life didn't stop here and love returned with reinforcements in his life, this time as a simple and young girl, simple and nice...to become one of his closest friends....nothing outstanding about her but still she stood out among all, to him she was like an angel and nothing less...the day would start and end with her. Sometimes moments in life stick to your mind and there he can see her today too....sitting in a white dress, right next to the canteen, waiting for him (let me take this liberty) and a extra weekend class to start....first time he ever cried when he knew she would leave his life...did she also fall in love with him..he doesn't know and I don't want to know.

As the time moved along, same friend fell in love with someone who he though was much beyond his level. A very beautiful, elegant and charming lady. She had a presence of her own where she was....everyone will pay their regards to her when she will come in, even if silently inside their heart....no eye could miss her. My friend stood no chance, not even the slightest of it....but then God had its own plans....the meetings happened and there they were hopeless in love with each other. Emotions overpowered all rational thinking, the heart always rejected any rational thought and mind just followed what heart said. That is the power of love...

So, when do we know the love is complete or love achieved what is set out to....when do we know that love is a true feeling and not just hormonal imbalance may be.....do we need to spend the lives together to mark the success of love.....do we need a name to be put against love for it to be any meaningful....

Do I have the answers, No. Look for your own answers, its not a guarantee that we will find the answers, but you will find love....doesn't matter how short, how long, where, with whom.....Love happens and just about happens to each one of us! Cherish the moments that love shares with you, for these moments just make the life so much worth it, so much worth living it !

 

The next to best can only be better

Think of ferrari, buy audi
Think of audi, buy skoda
Think of skoda, buy dzire
Think of "best", settle for "better"

hearing a lot of it from so many people around...

That's how the life sums itself up for a large population with dreams of best thimgs to cling on but only "next to best" things to hang out with.

Last few days a tag line has caught my fancy and I cannot seem to get rid of it. Today, here I am thinking what the life means if it was always the "best thing". As a child we would dream to be pilot flying a fighter aircraft but settle for lot less, as a youngster we would want to be as starry as shahrukh but will settle for lot less, you will fall in love which will not be yours and settle with the next best thing. Riding in the office cab I ponder how life would have been if We always had the "best" with me. But the more I think of it, the more it becomes hazy. While I am thinking on it, the only thing that I think one always wants to be "best" in life was the "love. Its the emotional quotient that puts one at peace rather than the materialistic pleasures of life (dont mean to dilute the importance of material things). The idea of how "the next best thing" should have been the "best" crosses one's mind and somber his or her mood. The best moments with the best can never be forgotten. A click in mind will tell you that the best were the best thing that could have happened to one. The memories will always be engraved in the heart and cherished when you sit down (a glass of drink would not do bad) one fine day thinking of the good times that went by and all that we cared for. The next best thing aren't any less by any measure, just that they are being compared to the best.

We all had the best with us at one point or another and a lucky few relish the best for their life.
Owner's pride, neighbor's envy.....Cheers!

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V day is here again !

The most talked about day is just hours away. Like all years, love struck souls will be vying for superiority. Trying to impress the one they say or think they love, or may be really love.

I will try to narrate a anecdote depicting the thoughts a lover may go through...any resemblance to anyone's life may make this paragraph a true story....who knows !

There's a boy with a gift in hand, a nice fragrance wrapped with love. Bought a Elizabeth Arden "Unbound" thinking of his love in mind, now he feel the jitters what she will think of his find. She might get angry, she might be shy......he may be left wondering what's in her mind. Sometimes he think he shall keep the gift to himself, let it pass for the next time they meet somewhere.
Last time he gave her something, it took her a while before she accept, left him wondering if he ever forced it on her. God save him all this confusion as he may not be strong enough to solve the puzzle, he loves her and she loves him, cann't You make it that simple. Salute to those who have found the True love, he may not be the best at expressing but deep down he knows he loves her. Her presence makes it perfect, her smile does it all. One day not in so distant future she may move on choosing someone over him, that day my frind will be the saddest day bringing it all to an end.
Rest in Peace is all i should say.
With this my friend i take your leave, have some work to finish before my journey to Home begins !